The Broken Vase

The week has been one heck of a roller coaster ride. From the effects of Ondoy to having to carry on with work to dealing with personal issues – these things have basically broken me down. I know that what I am going through right now is nowhere near what my countrymen are [...]

And That’s How The Fight Started…

Thanks to Facebook Notes, I had a good laugh today. So married couples, how do fights start? Read on and let this post make your day!
My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary. She said, ‘I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 150 in about 3 seconds.’
I bought her [...]

Taking Compromise To A Whole New Level

I think that’s what’s happening right now.  We’re both tired.  We’re both wanting things to go the way we want.  We’re both trying to get what we want.  In many little ways, they’re different.  But the ultimate goal remains the same.  Hence the unspoken compromises we make along the way.
We’re making headway.  One day at [...]

Tempest In My Tea Cup

I haven’t posted in a while. Things are not going so well. I don’t know if we’re going to be able to work it out, but I am going to try again. I hope J will want to as well. Cross your fingers and say some prayers for this cross-cultural couple, [...]

The Way of the Fist

I love hammy movie stars.  Heck, I spent all of Saturday night watching John Rambo and Commando.  I spend hours looking up Chuck Norris stuff. So why can’t I deal with the fact that J gets into fights?

The Rollercoaster Ride of a Marriage

I’ve always used this term to describe our marriage.  It is not an original thought – I’ve heard countless times before.  Perhaps I never really realized how much of a rollercoaster ride marriage can be.  Perhaps I never really will.

Don’t Let the Sun Go Down…Or Let It?

I remember the saying that we should not let the sun go down on our anger. That is, husband and wife should never go to bed angry at each other. That they should resolve their issues before sleeping.
I used to hold on to that belief. Now, I am not so sure anymore. [...]

I’m No Cheater

Just for fun…took another quiz at Blog Things.

You Couldn’t Cheat On Your Guy

Not that you’d want to anyway!
You’re incredibly loyal and honest…
Definitely not the cheating kind.

Could You Cheat On Your Guy?
Glad to know that the results support my principles!

On Being a Dutiful Wife

They say that when a woman gets married, she leaves her family and her husband becomes her first responsibility. Is this really true and right or is it just tradition? Sometimes, I find myself still caught in between my husband and my family. Worse, I find myself being pulled from three different [...]

The Break Up Test

Have you ever reached a point in your marriage wherein you just thought to yourself “To hell with it – I’m getting out?”  I read somewhere that even the best of marriages reach this point at least once.  What matters is how you approach the situation and how you and your partner work together towards [...]